Bereaved Families of Ontario
Durham Region

Support Centre


Bereaved helping the bereaved learn to live with grief. We can help the healing begin.

When someone in your Family Dies...

You may feel --
  • alone
  • different
  • angry
  • guilty
  • frustrated
  • tired

    You may worry about--

  • your own death
  • the death of another family member
  • who will take care of you

    You may find changes in your --

  • family
  • relationships with your family members
  • friends and how they relate to you

    You may find it difficult to --

  • talk to your family abut how you feel
  • see other family members in pain
  • cope with school

    This is all a Normal part of Grieving
    You are not Alone...
    Bereaved Families of Ontario provides groups for adolescents whose parents, brothers or sister have died. We help you to better understand your thoughts, feelings and actions. We listen.

    Our groups give you a change to talk about how the death has affected you and your family. In these groups it is okay to be angry, to be sad, to cry and to laugh. It's okay to be yourself.

    There is no charge for our service.

    Remember --

  • your feeling of emptiness is normal
  • grief is a long process
  • you will be able to concentrate again, laugh again
  • give yourself time

    Books you may find helpful

    Glaser, Diane Diary of Trilby Forest
    Gravelle, Karen Teenagers Face to Face with Bereavement
    Guest, Judith Ordinary People
    Little, Jean Mama's Going to Buy You a Mockingbird
    Lowry, Lois A Summer to Die
    Richter, Elizabeth Losing Someone You Love

    What some teens have said --
    Tom -
    "I was angry and sad, but I didn't know how to handle it. I just let it build up inside me."

    Melissa -
    "No one knew how I felt or cared how I felt. I felt totally alone."

    Matt -
    "I can't talk to my friends about this."

    Chris -
    "I thought going to Bereaved Families would be a lot more difficult than it turned out to be."

    Sarah -
    "It was more fun than I thought it would be. I really liked being with other who knew how I felt."

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Contact Us:
Toll Free: (800) 387-4870
Local: (905) 579-4293
Fax: (905) 579-7403
E-mail: bfodurham@bellnet.ca